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Fulfilling His Promise

Flash Forward | Winter 2018

When Doug Kirchner Jr., BA ā€™17, crossed the stage in December to receive his degree in applied conflict management with a minor in criminal justiceā€”the first in his family to graduate from collegeā€”his wife, Katie, and three sons were there to cheer him on. 

But three other important people in his life were missing: his friend and mentor, Scott, a state policeman who had died in 2016; his mother, who had died in 2015; and his daughter, Skyler, who had died in 2011 at age 12. 

Skyler had started him on this pathā€”before she died of brain cancer, she had made him promise to get his GED. ā€œOne day she asked me what I was going to be when I grew up,ā€ he recalls. ā€œI laughed and said, ā€˜Well, Iā€™m kind of grown up. Iā€™m in my thirties, I have three kids and one on the way, and thereā€™s not much I can do because I never graduated from high school.ā€™ā€ 

Dropping out of school in ninth gradeā€”after years of struggling with ADHD, dyslexia and a learning disability that hadnā€™t been diagnosed until after heā€™d failed several gradesā€”he started managing bands and promoting concerts in and around Cleveland. He married his first wife in 1997, had his daughter in 1999 and was divorced in 2001. 

He had remarried, had a son and was working at a cellphone company when his daughter was first diagnosed with brain cancer at age 6. After several years of remission, the cancer returned, and by age 12, she was terminal. 

Work went by the wayside as he helped take care of her, and after she died in November 2011, he had to file for bankruptcy. He began attending GED education classes with and earned his General Equivalency Diploma in June 2012. 

Heā€™d kept his promise to his daughter, and thatā€™s where he thought his education would end. But at his GED commencement, heā€™d met some recruiters from the , located on the Kent Campus, which helps GED graduates transition to college by offering academic, financial and social support. ā€œThey called me up and invited me to sit with them for a weekā€”before I knew it, I had signed up to enroll for a semester, just to try it.ā€ 

ā€œI got my GED for my daughter, but to complete college, I had to start doing it for myself.ā€
ā€”Doug Kirchner, BA ā€™17

It took him about four and a half years to complete his coursework, while working as a security specialist/investigator to help pay the bills. He credits his wife, caring professors and his ā€œLunch Bunchā€ā€”a small group of fellow studentsā€”for helping him make it through. ā€œI got my GED for my daughter, but to complete college I had to start doing it for myself.ā€  

ā€œMy heart is to change lives,ā€ he says, ā€œand to show juveniles who donā€™t have a voice that there is hope.ā€ 


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